मेरा  हर एक रिश्ता                                                                                                          

मैं, एक पिता की  तरह  लाद करती थी
 वो एक बेटी की तरह मुझे दुलारता था
मैं, एक मा की तरह सीखती थी
वो एक बेटी तरह मुझे सीखता था
मैं, एक छोटी बहन की तरह् झगड़ती थी
वो मुझे बड़ी बहन की तरह समझता था
मैं,एक छोटी बह्न की तरह लापरवाह थी
वो एक बड़े भाई की तरह संभालता था
मैं,एक दोस्त की तरह खुशियाँ बांटती थी
वो एक सच्चे दोस्त की तरह मेरे हर गम ले लेता था
इतनी बड़ी दुनिया मे, मेरी छोटी सी दुनिया थी उसके साथ
आज उसके बिना हर  रंग फीका है
दुनिया की इस भीड़ में अकेली हूँ उसके बिना
रोज़ नये लोगों से तो मिलती हूँ
पर दिल के धागे नहीं जोड़ पाती
हर रिशता है मेरे पास
बस उस् रिश्ते को ही नहीं जी पाती
हालत मेरी, जल्ल बिन
जैसे तड़पे, मछली!!!!!

                    Ladki
Ladki ke paida hote hi lagta hai us par
ladki hone ka kalank
Maa-Baap sochte hai ab kaise chalega unka vansh
jaise ladke to hain unka ansh
our ladki na ho unka ansh
ladke to paalen phoolon phalon me
ladki kaanton me zadi
jab ladki ho jaati badi uske pairon
me lag jaati hai beedi
ab aai uski shaadi ki baari
ghar me hone lagi uski shaadi ki taiyaari
maata-pita ko chod sasuraal chali bechaari
lakin vahan ho rhi thi uske dahej ki intzaari
jab saas-sasur ka dahej se nhi man bhra
gussaye sasural waalon ne diya use mitti tel se jala
ab aap hi batayein usme kya tha uska kusur
kyun mitta diya uska vajud
kya vo thi ek ladki isliye itni sasti thi uski jindgi
kya use haq nhi tha jeene ka bhi
jo de di hai uski bali

                                                                                  मौन                                                                                                                                                                                                                                  तुमको जो कहना है, कह     डालो
                                                 में तो  अब     बस     मौन     रहूँगी
                          पाया    जो   जीवन    से    सुख-दुख
                                       उसको    में    बस    मौन    सहूँगी.
                        केवल    शिकवा    नहीं    तुम्ही से
                                     सब    अपने     अपने        है    यहाँ    पराए
                        मेरे    शब्दों    के    सबने    ही
                                      अपने -   अपने  अर्थ  लगाए.
                       अर्थों    की    इस    भीड़          भाड़    मे   
                                         शब्द    हो  ग्ये    मौन    कहूँगी
                    तुमको  जो कहना  है कह  डालो                                                                                                                                                           में तो  अब  बस     मौन     रहूँगी.
                     मुझे तुमसे मिला बहुत कुछ
                                      वो    मेरा    पातये रहेगा.
                       मेइने    दुख    पुहुँचाया    तुमको
                                      इसका    मुझको    खेद    रहेगा
                   खट्टी    मीठी    यादें             लेकर
                                     में    तो    अब बस मौन    चलूंगी.
                   तुमको  जो कहना     है कह  डालो
                                                                                                                                                    में तो  अब     बस     मौन     रहूँगी.
                    इस          चुप्पी    के  भी        अर्थ    लगेंगे
                                        इसमे    ऐसा    क्या    न्या    है
                 पर    तुम    ये    भी    तो    सोचो
                                       हर    जाने          वाला    मौन ग्या    है
                 में    भी    नीरव    प्त   सही
                                         मौन कहूँगी,   मौन    रहूँगी.
                  तुमको  जो कहना  है, कह  डालो
                                                                                                                                                   में तो  अब     बस     मौन     रहूँगी.

Sirf ek comment aur Kismat Konnection

Din 22July, 2008 time 02.05pm ka show pehala sceen dekhte hi dil me
khayal aaya ki meri bhi to kismat aisi hi hai.Jis cheez ko chaha vo itni door
ho gai ki use paana to door ki baat hai, use dekhne or chune ko bhi tarast
jaati hoon. Mein 1^st time Iland par aai, or ek blog khula mere
saamne meine us par comment kiya. Mujhe kya pata tha ki Bhagwan ne mere liye ye
sab plan kiya hua hai.

Jindagi achchi chal rhi thi, khushiyan bantna hi tha kaam mera.

Aisa nhi tha ki gam nhi thy, par unme reh kar muskurana seekh liya
tha meine.Kam ka koi gam nhi tha, jayada ki koi khushi nhi thi.

Hmm par jab kabhi ladke ladkiyon ko dekhti thi to lagta tha ki kash
koi hota mere saath bhi. Par nhi pata tha ki do pal ki khushi ki kya kimat
chukani padti hai.

Vo ek Software Engineer or mein kuch bhi nhi, vo ek well cultured
insaan or mein ek chote se sher ki jhallii se ladki. Itni jhalli ki ek ajnabi
ki muskann ke liye bhi apni jindgi bhar ki muskan bhi bhul sakti hai. Vo ek
high class well educated or mein kuch bhi nhi, par dil ki qualification to thi
mere pass, par vo shayad kaffi nhi thi.

Phir us comment ka reply aaya or silsla chala email id exchange hue
phir online chat huei or hoti chali gaii.

Pata hi nhi chala ki kab itne pass aye ki online baat kar rhy hai
hum ye bhul hi gaye. Kab jindgi se or aatma se jud gaya.

Phir vo uska Indore se Noida aane ke ek mahine ka intzar,maano
duniya bhar ki khushiyan aa rhi ho mere dwaar. Par Bhagwan to kuch or ho soch
kar baitha tha mere liye. Kaise kata tha vo ek mahina hum dono ne phone par aaj
bhi yaad hai mujhe.Bahut mushkilon ke baad mile par kya mille shayd bichadne ke
liye hi mile thy.

Uske parents ne ek faisla kar diya or mein ek kinare par khadi hokar
sab dekhti rehi or dekh rhi hoon.Kaisa mazar hai ye. Jo insaan meri bechaini
bhi nhi dekh sakta tha aaj vo jaanta hai meri haalat phir chup hai. Mujhe to
bharosa tha us par ki vo mujhe chod hi nhi sakta par bharosa hi tut ta hai.

“Babu,mein rote rote bahut thak jaati hoon, par tumhari yaad,
tumhari baat, tumhara khayal nhi jaata.”

Aisa dil karta hai jis dil or dimag se mujhe tumhari yaad aati hai
use neekal kar phenk dun.

Mujhe pata hai mere rone se kuch nhi hoga,par sochti hoon shayad dil
halka ho jaayega.

Humari kahani to khatam ho gai hai, par meri jindgi me uski kahani
kabhi khatam nhi hogi, jab tak saans hai tab tak uski yaad mere har lamhe me
rehegi.

Jab mein kisis ladke ke parents ko delhti hoon to lagata hai ki ye
bhi uske parents ki tarah honge aur bolenge ki ye ladki theek nhi hai tumhare
liye. Par theek to hai.

Aap bhi kisis ke parents honge, ya banegy, ek request hai ki koi
faisla lene se pehale soch lena ki aapke bete ke saath koi or bhi juda, kisi ke
sapne jude hai, emotions jude hain, aap do jindagiyon ka faisla kar rhyen hai.

Agr meri galati se tum ye padh rhy ho to meine ye tumhe hurt karne
ke liye nhi likha hai. Sochti hoon ki jahan se kahani shuru hei thi vahi khatam
ho jaaye.

Suna suna lamha lamha, meri raahein tanha tanha……

Mudke zara tum dekh lo…

Bepanah pyar hai aaa jaaa tera intzaar hai aajaa….

Kaash koi aaye or mujhe kas kar gale lagale or kehe ki “Mein hoon
na, Meri Laddoo”.

                                                          3Dolls
A sage presented a prince with a set of three small dolls. The prince was not amused."Am I a girl that you give me dolls?he asked.
"This is a gift for a future king," said the man."If you look carefully ,you"ll see a hole in the ear of each doll."
"So?"
The sage handed him a piece of string.
"pass it through each doll,"he said.
Intrigued, the prince picked up the first doll and put the string into the ear.
It come out from the other ear.
"This is one type of person,"said the man.
"Whatever you tell him, comes out from other ear. He doesn"t retain anything."
The prince put the second type of person,"said the man.
"Whatever you tell him, he tells everybody else."
The prince picked up the third doll and repeated the process. The string did not reappear from anywhere else.
"This is the third type of person,"said the man.
"Whatever you tell him is locked up within him. It never comes out."
"What is the best person ?"asked prince.
The man handed him a froth doll, in answer.
When the prince put the string into the doll, it came out from the other ear.
"Do it again,"said the sage. The prince repeated the process. This time the string came out from the mouth. When he put the string in a third time , it did not come out at all.
"This is the best type of person,"said the man. "To be trustworthy, a man must know when not to listen, when to remain silent and when to speak out."
A wise person knows when to listen and when not to, when to silent and when to speak. What about me? Which kind of doll you represent?
If you happen to fall in the first three category, have you made any attempt to shift yourself to the fourth category? Well.
This story makes us more conscious  about being sensitive to different situation and people.
Diplomacy in life is cooked through the oven of sensitivity and awareness. Being sensitive and aware to people and situation makes us trustworthy in life.
I am sure that is what all of us expect from another human being.

Two Butterflies were in love...

One day,they decided to play Hide n Seek.....
During the play....
Boy Butterfly - "A small game within us"
Girl Butterfly - "OK"
Boy Butterfly - "The one who sits in this flower tomorrow early in the morning......
that one loves the other one more...
Girl Butterfly - "OK"

Next morning, the boy butterfly waits for the flower to open so that he can sit before the girl butterfly does

Finally,the flower opened.....
What did he see?
The girl butterfly had died inside the flower. She stayed there all night so that early in the morning as soon as she sees him she can fly to him and tell him how much she loved him.This is is true Love.Life is Love.

Living might mean taking chances,but they are worth taking
Loving might be a mistake,but its worth making.





Love

Set yourself Free

Set yourself free from anything that might hinder you in becoming the person you want to be. Free yourself from the uncertainties about your abilities or the worth of your dreams,from the fears that you may not be able to achieve them or that they won,t be what you wanted.

Set yourself free from the past. The good things from yesterday are still yours in memory;.the things you want to forget you will, for tomorrow is only a sunrise away. Free yourself from regert or guilt, and promise to live this day as fully as you can.

Set yourself free from the expectations of others,and never feel guilty or embarrassed if you do not live up to their standards. You are most important to yourself;live by what you feel is best and right for you. Others will come to respect your integrity and honesty.

To A Negative SituationWhat do you do when bottom falls out?
When the bubble breaks?
When the market saturated?
when it looks as if your dreams are turning to
ashes in your hands?
Remember this.Keep on believing!
You"ve not lost everything until you"ve lost your
faith! And that"s a choice....never and accident!
You reserve the right to choose your reaction to
whatever happens.
You always have the choice to react positively or negatively.
Decide today to react positively....
I will be rejoicing - nevertheless!
My dreams may be frustrated,nevertheless I will
keep standing on my strong faith!
This could turn out to be my shining hour!
I can turn tragedy into a triumph!
This is my opportunity to build the greatest
treasure a person can posses-a fantastic
reputation!
I shall choose to inspire people in my time of suffering.
I shall achieve respect because of my courage
in enormous difficulty.
Faith is reacting positively to a negative situation!!



HAVE A POSITIVE DAY......

Once in a life time
Once in a life time
You find a friend
Who touches not only your heart
But also your soul

Once in a life time
You discover someone
Who stands besides you not over you

Once in  a life time
If you are lucky
You find some one as I have found you
Very special people

We can be ourselves with,
Talk with,laugh with,
Hope with and believe with.....
You have no idea how grateful I am for it!

                   LOVE
"Love in speech is True,
         Love in action is Righteousness,
Love in thought is Peace,
         Love in understanding is Perfection without ego."